Sunday, July 15, 2012

July Celebrations



Mike & I celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary recently.
We are both amazed at how quickly time goes by, and grateful
that every year together is better than the last. 

Happy 4th of July from our family to yours!

The stars of the show: Marisa, Kieran, and cousin Haley.  

The whole gang: grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, parents, sisters...
it was great to have everybody together as we celebrated Independence Day!

The joy of every holiday is seeing how the kids respond to the festivities.
They handled the chaos of the fireworks really well, but wanted ear plugs.  

Boys of all ages love explosives!

Mommy & Marisa enjoying a little snuggle hug while watching
Daddy set off some fireworks.


We tried a new recipe recently- Outrageous Cookie Bars.   Yum!!
Visit my Mom Thoughts Blog for the recipe. :)

Saturday, June 9, 2012

Friday, May 18, 2012

Celebrating Kieran's Adoption Day

Three years ago, we were flying to Rwanda to meet our son, our first child.  On May 19th, we nervously sat in a little room and waited to be parents.  Surreal.  With our travel buddies all crammed into the room that was smaller than my bathroom, I held Kieran for the first time.  It was a rocky first meeting, but eventually he warmed up to us.  He was 19 months old then but not able to stand or walk without assistance.  It took him about a week to warm up to us and two weeks to really laugh.  Not long after we got home, he was catching up on learning to walk, and learning to love his new family.   He has transformed since then into a vibrant, enthusiastic, energetic, brilliant and loving little boy.  He is and always has been a snuggler.  He very social and constantly wants to do things, go places, and see people.  He's rarely quiet and usually running somewhere.  Kieran is also a good big brother; he and Marisa laugh together often.  He loves to help Mom & Dad around the house with whatever we're working on...usually cooking a meal with Mommy or a home improvement project with Daddy.  He's learning to read, and has also become fascinated with the planets and the stars.  He often calls all of us to the window to watch the sunset and enjoy the colors that God is painting in the west.  Kieran can pick out Venus and Jupiter in the night sky, and he can also tell you whether the moon is waxing or waning.  We have learned so much about astronomy because of him!  He often amazes us with his deep thoughts and curiosity about things.  Of course he also has weaknesses like any four year old- he can be very stubborn, has a flare for the dramatic, and wants to be in charge of everything.  But all in all, we are amazed that God chose to place him in our hearts and then in our arms.  Our lives have been forever changed for the better because of what happened in that little room in Rwanda three years ago!   Today we are celebrating Kieran's adoption day by watching his adoption video.  He told me that watching it always puts him in a good mood.  We'll go out to dinner at his favorite restaurant for burger and fries and enjoy some dessert too.  It's the simple things that delight him, so we're keeping it simple.

May 19, 2009.   My very first moment with Kieran.  Me: delighted.  Kieran: not so sure.
(Mike's head is in the foreground, and my dear friend & her new son are in the background.)  

June 8, 2009.  Kieran & Daddy at home.
Oh what a difference a few weeks can make!  Our son transformed into a happy boy.

May 2010.  Kieran said "Happy Mother's Day, Mommy!"
as he delivered the flowers to me.  What a cutie!!

May 2010.  Celebrating Mother's Day together for the first time.

May 2011.  Kieran is now a big brother! (Marisa arrived home in January.)
He makes his sister laugh all the time.

May 2011.  This is totally Kieran, lovin' life and enjoying being with his daddy.
May 2012.  The kids were having fun in our backyard with the water table.  

May 2012.  Kieran just poured water over his head!  He loves water and being goofy.

April 2012.  Kieran & Mommy.  He is always getting compliments on his sunglasses.

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Mother's Day: From Bitter to Sweet

Psalm 113 

Praise the Lord!
Yes, give praise, O servants of the Lord.
    Praise the name of the Lord!
Blessed be the name of the Lord
    now and forever.
Everywhere—from east to west—
    praise the name of the Lord.
For the Lord is high above the nations;
    his glory is higher than the heavens.
Who can be compared with the Lord our God,
    who is enthroned on high?
He stoops to look down
    on heaven and on earth.
He lifts the poor from the dust
    and the needy from the garbage dump.
He sets them among princes,
    even the princes of his own people!
He gives the childless woman a family,
    making her a happy mother.
Praise the Lord! 







I spent many Mother's Days waiting to be a mommy...nine years in all.  We started Marisa's adoption in the fall of 2005.  So, four of those nine years we were somewhere in the process of adoption for one or both of our children, but neither of them were home yet. Honestly, they were painful years as we waited indefinitely for our children to come home.  Finally, just after Mother's Day in 2009, God blessed us with our son, Kieran!  Those nine long years of waiting to be a mother diminished into memories as I held him for the first time. Then around Christmas of 2010, He graciously blessed us again...this time with our daughter, Marisa! What bliss to finally meet her and feel the weight of her in my arms!  On this Mother's Day I have a lot to be grateful for.   My empty arms are now full!!  Thank you, God, for blessing me with these children, and thank you for giving me the grace and patience to walk through those difficult years of waiting for them to come home to Mike & me.  Because of those past bitter years, these three years of being a mother are all the more sweet.  



Friday, April 13, 2012

April Celebrations

Earlier this month, we celebrated Mike's birthday.  The kids helped me make an ice cream cake for him. 
  


The kids picked out ties for their daddy to wear to work.

Enjoying the ice cream cake that we made for Daddy.

On Easter Sunday we went to church together.  All of us were dressed in our Easter best, but we never got a picture because nap time took precedence.   We had a wonderful afternoon eating way too much food and visiting with family, but once again failed to get a group photo.  Here are some photos of the kids hunting for eggs after dinner.  (The weather was perfect for an outdoor egg hunt!)




Finally a family photo!  Thank you, Berta, for taking this one for us.