How are things going with our Ethiopia adoption? Our home study is complete, and our dossier is almost finished. We are just waiting for the USCIS (citizenship & immigration) to send us a fingerprinting appointment and then grant us pre-approval to adopt a child that has probably not been born yet. That's basically the last step in the "paperchase" part of the process. I'm guesstimating that we will send our dossier to Ethiopia before Christmas. Although it's exciting to be almost done with all the paperchasing, we know that
there is still a long wait once our papers are submitted to Ethiopia. Currently, families that sent their dossier to Ethiopia in November of 2010, are "on deck" waiting for a referral. We are so familiar with slow downs and long waits for a referral. That doesn't worry me, but it does causes me to approach this adoption with a guarded heart. I'll get excited when we are "on deck". Unlike our previous adoptions, I'm also much more peaceful about the timeline, the delays, and the unexpected things that occur during the paper chase. Having two energetic kiddos here with me this time around helps a lot too!
All in all, we are happy to be pursuing Cayleigh. We think about her and talk about her frequently. Kieran actually talks about her the most. It's who he is, and I love that he is excited that we are adopting again. Even Marisa is comprehending some of it. She talks about sharing her dolly with her new sister, and comments on the items that are hers that will someday be Cayleigh's (like the high chair). I'm very thankful to know what direction we are supposed to be going, and grateful that we can actively take steps to bring our daughter home. I do wish the the wait time for a referral would decrease, but I've never seen that happen in the years that I've been keeping a keen eye on international adoption. Mike and I are definitely glad to be veteran adopters as it is making this journey simpler in some ways. Also, as always, God is supplying the funds when we need them. We are humbled and grateful that the Lord has chosen us to be Cayleigh's parents through the miracle of adoption.
Thanks for thinking of us, and for praying about our adoption process. We'll post again once we have any updates to share.